S is an angry, self loathing, bipolar, manic depressive, black hearted, borderline shrew

It’s funny that when D was living with her (S), all she could say was that D was out of control and she needed professional help. Now that D is back with us, she’s conveniently forgotten about all of the times D has been arrested for assaulting her. That’s right. D has been arrested, on several occasions, for hitting her grandmother. Not only that, she feels absolutely no remorse for anything she’s done. When the county juvenile officer interviewed her the other day, she said that not only did she not feel any remorse for attacking her mom, but she would do it again.

So now, after all of that, WE are all in the wrong. Every professional who finally wants to put her in a residential facility so she can get the proper help that she needs, is wrong.

We’ve apparently all given up now that the “going has gotten tough.”

Really?? Much like the same way you gave up on your marriage and ran across the country when your drunken husband attacked you in front of your daughter and granddaughter? Do you think that could have possibly contributed to the grief and trauma that continues to plague this girl that we are all desperately trying to help?

No? Well how about these bullshit, petty, guilt games that she continues to play with her daughter (my wife)?  What kind of a sick, twisted MOTHER would not speak to her own daughter because of a verbal argument that didn’t even involve her (See previous posts for more info)?

Don’t get me wrong, I realize that I’m no saint.

I also realize that I’ve done my part in causing this non-verbal stand off, but I grew up in a very stable family structure. This is just not normal. To shun your own daughter just because you’re too weak to admit that maybe you might actually be a part of the problem? Do people actually live like this?

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